LOVE THYSELF… LOVE THEE ~ FIRST LOVE IS ME

(@ALS – ACTIVE LEARNING SYSTEM – LEARNING # 2)

We are born out of love, even in the womb we are surrounded with love. When we come out, we are so full of love that every cell in our body radiates that to the outside world.

We pull everyone towards us like a magnet, that’s the power of Love.

The little child is unwavered by the affection and attention of the outside world , he is so content in his world, he is just not craving for that hug or kiss from everyone around. The child is just complete in itself and hence is compared to Godliness.

So what happens after that that we spend the rest of our lives running behind love including it’s different look alikes.

As we grow we fall out of love, and we start seeking it from the outside world – from people, places, things, experiences, and even from food.

We are told to work hard towards getting everybody’s attention, appreciation, care, support, etc – exactly the things we were naturally born with.

And as the human mind is told , so it starts feeling the same – – empty, and wanting.

Whereas the truth is that- love received/felt from everything outside be it people, places, things or experiences is bound to wean off one day.

Just like a child weans off from Mother’s Milk one day, the same milk he was crying for and wanting to get so badly that his life depended on it .

But weaning off was important for his growth and development just like maybe weaning off from the need of love from outside is important for our next level growth and soul upliftment.

Agreed that love is very important for our lives. It’s very healthy to feel appreciated, respected, cared for, admired, etc., etc. But there is no need to search for all of this outside, When there is an endless ocean inside, then there is no need to search for these mortal droplets from the outside world.

Loving oneself truly, deeply, madly, is the first stage to achieve this. Once you are full from within, you will attract all of these from the outside world, but you may not need it then.

ITS TIME TO GO WITHIN

The whole point of sharing all of these things is that continuous hurt and the disappointment we receive from all the outside things creates stress and negativity and feelings which are the root cause of every DIS-EASE in the body.

If love is the root cause, the tiny seed behind every happiness, seeking it constantly is also the seed behind all kinds of diseases and uneasiness in the body and soul .

It is very important to dive deeper and think on these lines.

What I have learned from my experiences is that

• I should be complete of love within to be able to receive it and share it with everyone.
• There is no point in chasing , if it is bound to happen to you. It will .
• Lastly, just love yourself madly, put yourself first, take care of your health, your Hobbies, your passions, live an uncompromised life and see how beautiful each day will be .

I have started following this mantra and life already feels beautiful and stress free – I AM HEALING ❤️‍🩹